Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Nomadic Matt's Travel Site: The Accidental Traveler

Nomadic Matt's Travel Site: The Accidental Traveler

The Accidental Traveler

Posted: 28 May 2013 09:36 AM PDT

nomadic matt in australiaI can count on one hand all the places I visited before I was 23. Travel wasn't part of my upbringing. It wasn't something my family did outside of the occasional road trip to visit my grandmother in Florida.

In college, I skipped studying abroad because I was afraid I might miss something. I went to Montreal twice because when you're under 21 and can't afford Spring Break in Cancun, Montreal is the closest place to go when you live in Boston. It wasn't until I was 23 that I left North America to visit Costa Rica and I only did that because that's what I thought you were supposed to do when you work. With two weeks vacation a year, you're supposed to go somewhere and have fun, right? It wasn't that I had a burning desire to travel; it was just something I thought I had to do.

But that trip to Costa Rica changed my whole life. After that, I was hooked. I was in love. I was addicted. I needed travel in my life.

A couple of months ago, I told this story during a radio interview and the host called me an accidental traveler.

I liked that phrase. The accidental traveler.

I'd never thought about it that way before, but it’s fitting.

In the beginning, I had no burning desire to travel; it was just something that happened. Travel became part of my life only as an afterthought. I never woke up wanting to be nomadic.

Being called an accidental traveler made me think about the journeys we take as people.

Are they deliberate, or do they just happen? How many times do we discover our journey only while we're in the middle of it?

I think about the journey I've taken. It begin first as a simple desire to travel more, then changed to a stronger desire to take a gap year and then wanting to travel forever. I fell into travel writing as a way to make that happen.

Now, I can’t imagine doing anything else with my life.

nomadic matt in in thailandEach step, each twist and turn, happened without any prior planning or thinking. In the words of Robert Frost, way lead onto way.

I found my path only while I was on it.

My mind sometimes goes back to when I was 23 and in Costa Rica. What made Costa Rica so special was that it showed me I could live life on my own terms. Travel allowed me to do what I wanted, when I wanted. It made every day Saturday and filled it with endless possibility.

I think of my friend Chris Guillebeau, who recently finished his journey to visit all the countries in the world before his 35th birthday, and how he described his journey of one that evolved over time.

You want to see a couple of countries.

Then a couple more.

One day you wake up and you're on a quest to see every country in the world.

Just like one day you wake up and you realize you've become a world traveler.

You don't know how it happened. You can't really pinpoint the exact moment you or your life changed.

But it did.

Your one year plan turns into eighteen months, then thirty six months, and then, suddenly, you are celebrating five years on the road.

You're a traveler. It's in your blood. It's who you are.

And you sit and write this in your favorite coffee shop in NYC and you reflect on how you got here and think about all the other big moments in your life and you realize that the best ones all happened as accidents.

And as you get ready to travel again, you realize that sometimes just falling into something can be the best thing to happen to you.

One day, you set out on a path and the road twists and turns and you think you're still on that same path until you stop and rest — then you look around and realize you're not where you intended to be, but someplace even better.

Then there, in this new world, as you get ready to celebrate another year older, you come to the conclusion that no plan might be the best plan and you're happy letting life’s accidents lead the way.

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