Sunday, October 31, 2010

My Round the World Adventure

My Round the World Adventure

The Weekly Photo: Fraser Island

Posted: 31 Oct 2010 03:01 PM PDT

old ship on fraser island australia

Fraser Island, Australia

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Friday, October 29, 2010

Park City Rentals: Travel Blog plus 1 more

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Asahi Breweries Ltd, Tokyo – Japan

Posted: 28 Oct 2010 07:53 PM PDT

Asahi Breweries Ltd, Tokyo - Japan
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Asahi Beer Hall is the head office of Asahi Breweries. Next to the beer shaped building is the Asahi Flame, also referred to as “the golden turd”.

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Thursday, October 28, 2010

My Round the World Adventure

My Round the World Adventure

Dealing with Harassment

Posted: 28 Oct 2010 06:48 AM PDT

Harassment posterThis is a guest blog by Laura, our resident expert on female travel.

Many female travelers experience varying levels of harassment on the road, while others may not hear so much as a catcall. Although it happens everywhere, harassment towards women is more common in some places than others, and you should be aware of this unflattering side of travel. No, it shouldn't scare you or prevent you from traveling, but being prepared to deal with situations will make your travels go more smoothly and help you to prevent stress. Here are some situations I've encountered and how I dealt with them.

"How many camels?"
To be honest, I find the worst harassment towards females to be in the Middle East. It is difficult to travel there as a female, and it can be quite stressful if you are traveling on your own.

My first trip to the Middle East was with a group in 2008. I had no idea what to expect in Egypt, and soon found myself cringing every time I heard someone yelling on the street, "How many camels?" In Egyptian culture it is common to pay a dowry for marriage, so when men ask this question, they are asking how many camels they have to pay if they want to marry you. At first I ignored them, but then I found another way to handle it. After a few days of getting over the initial shock of all the catcalls, I was tired of ignoring it. So, the next time I heard, "How many camels?" I answered, "More than you can afford!" This remark usually prompted laughs from the guy's friends or surrounding vendors, followed by a bit of ragging on the guy. Some of the guys would come back with some other smart remark that usually turned into playful banter. Again, I generally ignore catcalls but I always judge each situation as it comes.

Harassment poster

"We should share a room."
I heard this one during my second trip to the Middle East, but this time I was traveling by myself. On a bus from the airport into Amman, the Egyptian man next to me suggested we should share a room, 'you know just to save costs'. Yeah, I'm sure that's why. Noticing a wedding ring on his finger, I said, "Should we call your wife just to make sure it's okay?"

"What is wrong with you American women?"
In Aqaba, in the south of Jordan, I had a dive instructor ask if he could join me when I was heading out to go snorkeling. It's a public beach, so I didn't think telling him 'no' would do any good. We snorkeled out to the coral, and he reached over, ripped off my snorkel mask, and tried to grab me. Furious, (thankfully I'm a strong swimmer) I pop up out of the water, only to hit my foot on fire coral. I started reaming him out, and he told me, "I just thought we should switch masks." Nice try. I essentially told him that it's disrespectful to grab women and so on. He proceeded to ask me what was wrong with American women. It's wrong in any culture, but knowing that the Jordanian culture is conservative, I wanted to know if it was okay if a man grabbed his sister like that. After a firm reprimand, I swam back to shore and avoided him the next few days. I learned from this situation that it's okay to say, 'No, actually I'd like to go for a swim by myself today.'


"Let's move to the bush together."
On a fourteen-hour bus ride from Malawi to Zambia, I thought it was nice when a Zambian doctor who spoke good English sat next to me. After some discussion on education and culture he got right down to business, telling me that we should move into the bush (wilderness) together. He also would not stop asking if I would sponsor him to come to the U.S. Normally, I would suggest you switch seats when you get a seat buddy like this, but the bus was completely full. I cut him off by telling him I had a boyfriend. Sadly this did not discourage him, and when we finally made it to his destination, he kissed my hand before getting off the bus. I gave him a fake email at the time, but I think it's best to just tell the person that you are complete strangers and you guard your privacy. Don't hand over any information such as phone numbers or emails.

Harassment and assault are situations that female travelers encounter and must learn to deal with. If you are in an area where harassment is common, even traveling with one other person helps. If you're traveling solo, be prepared to answer questions about your fake (or real) boyfriend and determine how you would handle some of these given situations. Read up on sexual harassment when you travel, as the situations vary and it happens to a different degree depending on where you're headed. If you are a male reader, be aware of solo female travelers in countries where harassment is common. Even sitting next to one of us on public transport or walking alongside us helps to decrease the comments or assaults.

Laura Walker runs the website, A Wandering Sole. She’s been backpacking around the world for seven months by herself and is not afraid just because she is a girl. You can get more travel tips from her website or check back here every other Thursday for more stories by her.

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